Yes, I am one of those men who carry a bag with me most everywhere I go. I admit it, some call it a “man purse” a “murse”….others call it a pocketbook as they snicker to themselves. Let them snicker, I know the power it carries and I tell you its the part of the best habit I have, and I highly recommend it as it is the basis of my personal organization and business support system… allow me to explain further.
It started when I was 21 years old, along time ago. I was in business and could not remember every phone number or directions or who I met with and what I promised I would do, and my worst nightmare was saying I would do something and then forgetting to do it, or losing a phone number, a name etc.
I purchased a blank book, and began to write notes to myself, telephone numbers, addresses, cash flows, to do lists whatever came past me that I felt I would want to review for some reason and soon I was unable to go anywhere or do anything without my book in hand so I could jot down whatever seemed worthy of remembering.
Then I had to solve the problem of how to carry my book with me at all times so I could be certain I had it when I needed it. Thus it became clear to me I needed a bag, a man purse, a murse. I then selected a readily available version and eventually, many years later after much experimentation, I designed one that fits my needs perfectly. I still carry the same bag for over fifteen years, designed to store my blank book and other necessary items comfortably and conveniently so I have them with me at all times.
Thus the merger of the two became the basis of a survival system, my blank book and my bag. Add to my bag, a cell phone, my calculator, my blank book, a pocket for my car keys, pencils, my wallet and other stuff and its my office in a bag, always by my side and always ready to serve me. If I am in my car and hear something on the radio I may want to check out I can write it down, directions, names whatever, whenever and whom ever.
I would look ridiculous if I walked around with my brief case everywhere I go, but my “murse” is ok, its over my shoulder or held by the hand strap and its my life saver, whatever i need for survival, plane tickets, receipts, a check book, whatever, goes into my “murse” and I have my office in a bag. It is also the only effective way for me to always have my blank book with me at all times so I can refer to it or write something down that I may want to remember later.
Could I accomplish this other ways? Probably, but this works for me and has worked for me for many many years, so well that I admit my addiction and proudly carry my “murse ” with me were ever I go, as it has whatever I need to survive and succeed in it and I always have it and my blank book at my fingertips.
I have a lap top but I do not take it to dinner or when I am out with my wife, or at a ballgame or wherever I may be…but I do have my “murse” with me, thus I am always ready to jot something important down.
My blank book and my bag…the secret to my organizational success. One final note, my blank book has no lines either, I love the blank page so I can be artistic with my cash flows and notes…lines feel restrictive to me, but either work. Try it, and if you can handle the snickering, it will be a terrific tool for you, and I am asked about my bag, as I frequently am, I say nonchalantly, its for carrying my glock! That shuts them up.
I have dug an old blank book out many many times to recapture a bit of information I recall I recorded and its always there waiting for me to refer back and rediscover the bit I was looking for, its saved my life and business many times.
I admit I love my blank book and have experimented with many until I found the exact one I liked the most.
I am seldom without my book. I use one up every three months like clock work and then purchase another and store the old one.
I no longer have to remember anything…its in my book…which is in my bag, and I have a place for my glock.
May 17, 2008 at 7:18 pm05
My book lasts for three months and I look through it, write in it, as well as refer to it, so frequently I know everything in it and were it is…never a problem finding anything, and the basic org format is by date, so its easy to find stuff.
I start the book from both ends, front and back, and put things I consistently refer to in the back, while the daily log is in the front. It works for me. I would not be without my book and my bag.
Don
May 16, 2008 at 7:18 pm05
Ha Ha
It is also called a “European hand bag” or “European baguette”.
Do the Europeans know something we don’t? They have been carrying these silly things for decades maybe centuries now. I can see the advantages of this personal habit of having these amenities are your finger tips.
But as far as your book goes; it needs an organizational structure or some sort of filing system. It reminds me of the Seinfeld episode when George has an “obese” wallet with supposedly everything crammed into there. Eventually the wallet “exploded” because it was out of room for more stuff. Don’t let your book ignite or explode because of faulty organizational measures.
Best,
Karl